Debayo Coker

A Man Like Me: Noteography of a Father to His Son Debayo Coker

I stood close to the window looking into the celestial horizon, racking my brain on how I will continue working on a script I got stuck writing, then my adrenaline flight took me to write out a message through which I intend to announce the birth of my son on some social media platforms so I wrote out CREDENDUM TO MY SON first, but the flow would not stop, so, I decided to make a collection of projectorial notes of certain and likely events that will and likely happen as we come to bond together.     There is nothing that brings greater joy to the heart other than living a life that is worthy. I have tried my best reading through all the books that I can lay my hands on that address the topic of fatherhood but there is something that I really want to know which is the communication avenue that could be explored to promote the relationship between a father and his son. Communication is needed to achieve a set goal especially when we will be working together as a team.    Humanity is so sweet. Loving, respecting and treating everyone with kindness are very important in maintaining that cord that binds us all.     Kindly take a time out to grasp these momenta when you are most relaxed in body, soul and spirit in order to ably welcome the pointrel that will come to work on your heart as it is inherent in this life sojourn. Expressly, literary, academically, socially and what have you, whatsoever point of view you look at it from just don?t lose the foci herein.    You can best understand these notes if you string them as a whole; but reading them in isolation and randomly will not depreciate their signification. Mostly, they are referential, one to another, anaphorically as well as cataphorically.   I am in by no way demanding that you conform yourself to the events that are recorded in the noteography as self-discovery is very unique a journey that everyone needs to tread on his or her own. Pick the ones that may work for you and concoct them with what you may have discovered as unique to your situations. I pray the good God leads your path.     I hope you will be far better off than you were before you embarked on this trip with me.