Stephen Paul Tolmie

Now You Have Her... Now You Don't...: a Personal Walk Through a Widower's Grief Stephen Paul Tolmie

"Life Goes On ... But Are You Going On With Your Life"?This is easier said than done. Before you can begin the path through grief, I feel we must first go back to the beginning of your relationship with your spouse. For it is at this point you will first be able to get in touch with your inner self and with the essence of the beginning of your emotional connection. The path through grief is a dark and lonely trail, one you have to endure without assistance. There is no "proper" or "improper" method, map, or schedule about HOW to endure it. There is no guide about the affect on you or on those around you. You must learn how to cope on a daily basis ... One Day at a Time. You must realize that you will make mistakes and be a big enough person to realize that and not be ashamed to admit it... either to yourself or to others."Life is not measured by the number or breaths we take, but rather by the moments that take our breath away"LOVE IS FOREVERMay God bless all who read this book. I hope it has given you a little bit of inner peace, of comfort and a sense of closeness to the loved one who has gone before youIN MEMORY "Her voice still echoesHer life still inspiresHer light still shinesAnd always willI''m so thankful that I knew herShe lives on in so many heartsIncluding mineOur lives are still connected-Heart to heart: soul to soul"... Poem from a Hallmark Card