Pamela Dow

Both Ways Are Best: a Journey Toward Finding Love Pamela Dow

Based on a True Story Penny and Rob marry after a whirlwind courtship in 1967. But their dreams of having a simple, hippie life in Maine are shattered when they divorce seven years later. Rob goes on to live their dreams?with another woman?while Penny embarks on a series of Vision Quests, which point the way back to a part of herself that she had abandoned after suffering a severe trauma at age 15. She begins to acknowledge deep anger that helped destroy her relationships, no longer ignoring intuitive lessons that are surfacing through the fog and confusion. After Penny?s 90-year old father dies she and her three siblings are together for the first time in many years. The rumor about their adopted cousin, Betsy, is addressed: Is she really a sister? Peggy, the genealogist, decides to find Betsy?s biological mother in hopes of getting to the truth. During Penny?s many Vision Quests she travels to exotic places, eventually landing in San Miguel de Allende, a magical place of healing high in the mountains of Mexico. She manages to forget Rob and their life together until dreams?some are nightmares?begin to haunt her. These dreams help her to understand why they had to leave each other more than thirty years before. They also lead her back to Rob.