Sarah Murphy

Change Your Habits Sarah Murphy

This book is about "Change your Habit." The book is designed to trigger introspection and an in-ward evaluation that can trigger action to improve your personality, behavior, attitudes, communication skills, demeanor, and overall habits.
Face your fears and do it anyway
According to Paolo Coelho, "The fear of suffering is worse than the suffering itself," and Eleanor Roosevelt adds, "You gain strength, courage, and confidence by every experience in which you really stop to look fear in the face. You must do the thing which you think you cannot do".
Don't let your fears frustrate you, limit you, or - even worse - paralyze you. See fear as a warning light, not as a red light. I see it over and over again with my clients: Once they start doing what they fear, their fear goes away. Mark Twain knew this already a hundred years ago when he said: "Twenty years from now, you will be more disappointed by the things you didn't do than with the ones that you did."
Face your fears. Ninety percent of them are pure imagination anyway. Illusions! Incredible stories of drama and disaster that will probably never happen and are made up by your mind - "the world's greatest director of soap operas," as T. Harv Eker calls it, to keep you in your comfort zone. The only problem is that great things like development, growth, and success happen outside of the comfort zone.
Fear is your mind's survival mechanism. It wants to keep you safe, and anything that it doesn't know scares it. This was good thousands of years ago when you had to run from big predators to avoid getting eaten, but nowadays, most of the time, it hurts us. Most of the time, behind your fears, there will be great opportunities waiting for you, so make it a habit always to ask yourself: "What's the worst thing that can happen to me if I do this?" and evaluate if the risk is worth taking or not.
Be careful. There is also a price for not taking a risk or stepping out of your comfort zone.