Zan Korenjak

Understanding Breakup Dynamics Zan Korenjak

One of the most common mistakes dumpees make is that they think they can reason with their space-deprived ex and with a little bit of confidence and willpower, guide their ex back into the relationship with them. But, unfortunately, dumpees usually can't do that. They don't possess the power to attract their ex back because dumpers develop negative pre-breakup thinking patterns and poor post-breakup anchors that prevent them from falling back in love. The only thing that can convince dumpers to give their broken relationship another chance is the realization that the grass is greener only where they water it. The purpose of this book is to: - Learn more about breakup dynamics from a psychological perspective- Understand why romantic reconciliations are out of your control- Accept the breakup and maximize your chances of romantic/personal success- Detach from your ex and lose hope- Recover and get over your ex as quickly as possible- Succeed with or without your ex or with someone els