Margaret W LaVigne

End the Marriage or Not Margaret W LaVigne

How many unhappy resentful couples stay together not out of love but out of fear of social stigma? It's time for the world to stop stigmatizing failed relationships, either breakups before or after marriage. By doing so, there will be fewer tragedies, fewer miserable false marriages on earth. Breakups and failed marriages should be rationalized and justified in the route of love-searching. No social stigma, no trauma. Ending an unhealthy relationship or toxic marriage is absolutely a wise and justified decision. It's the foolish social prejudice from the public that hurts. It's absolutely cruel, foolish and unreasonable to keep someone in a loveless relationship or a mentally abusive marriage for a lifetime. If people need to boost their courage to end a troublesome relationship, there must be something wrong with the society. If the world is free from discrimination, pride, vanity and prejudice, it will be a better world without trauma, depression and social phobia. God sees things differently from us. Never stigmatize any of your life experiences. Learn and grow from the past. According to the Bible's instruction, "God promises to make something good out of the storm" that "our light affliction, which is but for a moment" will make us " perfect and complete (Job 5:17, Roman 8: 28, Romans 8:18, 2 Corinthians 4:17, James 1:1-27 ESV).