John C Botdorf

Mastering Your Diva: A Gentleman's Guide to a High Maintenance Courtship John C Botdorf

Managing Your Diva is a Gentleman's Guide to what happens when a highly successful Alpha male chooses to match wits with a gorgeous Diva. This book was written by an Entrepreneur engaged in the high stakes private equity world for over thirty years and had an eye toward courting beautiful women. The challenges of maintaining, growing and creating trust in a high drama, higher conflict relationship requires special skills and special training. Divas are used to getting their way, sometimes even when they are wrong. They often play by different rules. So do Gentlemen bent on creating generational success where failure is not an option. What then happens when these two profiles collide and these two separate paths have to unite? How can this type of relationship be conquered where everyone connected to it can thrive? Is this type of relationship even possible in the real world? Managing Your Diva does a deep dive on understanding upfront what is about to happen in this potentially explosive forum of courtship. The book discusses what is your Diva expiration date and how can it be extended? How does one master a "Diva Audit"? The book explores why "I am sorry" does not matter in most Diva conflicts. Many of the scenarios and research in this book was conducted by "FIFADS. COM", aka "The Frodtob Institute for Advanced Diva Studies". The main purpose of FIFADS is to rehabilitate men who have survived one or more Diva "Tours of Duty" and require special counseling to be re-introduced back into the dating world. FIFADS mission is to advance the DIVA relationship as far as possible by extending kind and rational thought to this rare relationship where a Diva meets her Diva Suitor and the passion begins. While the book focuses on Diva relationships with Alpha Males, many of the principals in the book are quite useful for in-laws, stepchildren, siblings, and extended family who are often caught in the middle of more drama than they wanted. The book's principals also apply to any type of relationship where high drama and high maintenance are present.