Wale Oyeniyi

Unmasking the Betrayer Wale Oyeniyi

Conquer Disappointments, Letdowns, and Human Betrayals. Learn how not to let your feelings of anger and loss control your actions. Disappointment comes in different forms and shades. The feeling also comes in different magnitudes, as no two disappointments affect the victim equally. Sometimes, it hits us like a gentle wind or a drizzle and sometimes it strikes us like a raging storm, sweeping us off and overwhelming us. Sometimes, it burns us a little like a match flame, and sometimes it consumes us like a full-blown inferno. At other times, its effects fall somewhere in the spectrum between the two extremes. Disappointment ranks amongst one of life's most discomfiting feelings. It contains a subset of other negative feelings such as anger, frustration, hurt, hopelessness, sadness, etc. These are all emotions that, if left untamed, are capable of ruining anyone's life. Disappointment can engulf your being such that it occupies the forefront of your mind while simultaneously niggling in its background; it's that pervasive. This makes the feeling hard to overcome, let alone forget. As if that's not enough, it causes you to have a grey perception of life. Unfortunately, disappointments are inevitable. No matter how hard we try, we cannot completely avoid them. So if we must prosper and fulfil our destiny and purpose here on earth, we need to find and master the winning strategies that will help us overcome disappointments. If we must get the best out of our careers, relationships and lives generally, then we must learn how to deal with disappointment. We must become adept at navigating the pools of emotions that comes with disappointment before we become submerged in them. I wrote this book to help us articulate all the winning strategies that I have used for many years and continue to apply to overcome disappointments. These strategies are practical and accentuated with a rich background of the Holy Bible because I have discovered that it's ultimately our faith and belief in the Almighty that makes us conquerors and overcomers. The strategies contained herein are divinely inspired as they are proven. As a counsellor that has over the years helped many people to conquer disappointments, I wrote this book to make the systematic plan of getting over disappointment accessible to as many people as are willing to know.