Ajani Abdul-Khaliq

Sex in 12 Dimensions Ajani Abdul-Khaliq

Sex as co-creation. S12 takes us through the different ways in which your natural style of creating anything--from impressions to opinions to hobbies and even self-barriers--can be translated into shared intimacy with your partner. Here we think of you as energy (as in atoms and waves), so that sex becomes the intense version your sharing that energy with someone else in order to make something new. Would you ever have sex just to brag about it? You might if you have people you like to brag to. How is this done differently from sex on your deepest wants--where even people you think you hate may have some of your biggest fun locked up in your idea of them? S12 talks about this and much, much more.

Told using a familiar framework, this book covers the following kinds of sex, how and when you would do it, and why you might try something despite what you thought you knew about it:

Traditional Sex Lovemaking Animal Style Semi-conscious Bragging Purposes Hobby Translation and Pure Play Deep Psyche Duty Kink Defiance of Opponents Joint Stream of Consciousness

The book also goes into depth regarding the connections between your unique body shape (your height, build, other features and what they tell), power dynamics, favorite shows, preferred work, and even boredom behaviors and how they translate into sexual exchanges that fit (or don't fit) you. There is even a dimension for Celibacy, voluntary or involuntary, its 3 types and what they are good for, as well as asexuality, plurigender and gender neutral discussions.



S12 builds heavily on the idea of self-value, openness to yourself, and freedom from shame. Even if your partnership has lost its fire or one of the partners has struggled to keep the relationship value high, dimensions such as 12, 2, and 4 may yet have something to offer. For the daring, there is always dimensions 1, 10, and 11.



You can use S12 even if you have no interest in sex at all, and just want to learn how to unlock your high creativity. Every sexual dimension begins with a non-sexual psychology-style, and can be translated back and forth between these areas whether you are solo, partnered, multiple-partnered, or taking a break from sex entirely. There is something in the book for everyone. It is for adults though. With that in mind, you're sure to get a lot out of this book. Try what's in it, and watch your relationships evolve.