Starlene Patterson

What Love is and What Love is not Starlene Patterson

We are in a time where we are witnessing so many relationships fall apart, divorce rates are happening at an alarming rate and aside from infidelity, irreconcilable differences or in other words "We just don't get along anymore," or "We just fell out of love," is what we all have been hearing. One begins to wonder if love was ever present. Do people know and understand what love really is? Was love ever modeled for them? Do they realize that love doesn't hurt but lust does? Those were the very questions the author had to ask herself after several failed relationships. What Love Is and What Love Is Not is a love book birthed out of Starlene's own personal painful experience. From every relationship, she took what she believed what love was and measured it against the Bibles definition in 1 Corinthians 13: 4-8 and learned there was a stark contrast. She took her new knowledge of the definition of love and she began applying it to her life resulting in her present healthiest relationship.