Olufunmilola Kuforiji

An Ordained Marriage Olufunmilola Kuforiji

The institution called Marriage is a three cord relationship. First with the man, the woman and God who destined marriage from the beginning. The reason why most marriages failed today was because it had only been narrowed to a two cord relationship, which is between the man and the woman. God who introduced the institution from the beginning through Adam and Eve had been pushed out of most marriage, and hence the problem we see today in marriages. Before a man or woman entered into an agreement of marriage, they must pray for guidance and not to enter it frivolously. Love at first sight without divine guidance is what had wretched most marriages today. God is Love, wherever you find Him you find Love. Whenever a man or woman says they don't love each other anymore, it is a sign of God's absence in such home. Not until the man and woman bring back God into marriage, the rate of divorce will continue to sour higher. The characteristic of God is what marriages need to survive. One of this characteristic is that God is merciful. If the man and woman can show mercy in most cases to one another, the word divorce will be phased out. For every mistake each made, the other will be willing to forgive, hence peace will reign which is another characteristics of God. This book dealt with some crucial topics like what an ordained marriage should look like. It also buttressed the danger of an Un-ordained Marriage. It gives hope to every foundation that was not laid properly by suggesting the way out. It also discussed God's role in marriage and His contribution to it. The man and the woman role are also explained, and the final part of this book answered some questions that we might like to ask on marital issues.